Heyy guys! So for those of you who don't know me, I'm Lily. I've been a member of the Mb for about 7 months and well I decided it's time to go. A lot of you know that I've "left" before. I've done this quite a few times. I came back to visit the first time and ended up coming back. Then I "left" again and came back because I thought things were solved. I didn't know completely why but I do now. So I just want to give some advice before I go.
So, let's say you have a secret. (Because we all know every one does.) You've kept it a secret for awhile, and now you feel like you need to come out about it. (Unless your not at that stage in the secret keeping stage yet...you'll get there, don't worry.) To tell your parents, friends, enemies, siblings, cousins, or whoever needs to be told. But how? Will they ever trust you again? Will they still be there for you? What will people do of they hear about this?! What will happen if you do? Stop. Push these thoughts aside for a second and think. .......................................(deep breath)........
Okay, you've thought. Or maybe you just focused on breathing xp in which case, you've still thought so you've accomplished something! -high fives-
Now let's put yourself in the person your going to tell shoes.
You (which is the person your gonna tell because you switched places)
You: hi...I need to tell you something...
Them: okay what is it?
You: I stole your cookies....
Them: what!? How could you?!?!-
Okay, wrong example. Basically what I'm trying to say is, if they find out about your secret, they are gonna be more hurt then if you would've just told them. Trust me, no secret is hidden forever. You have to come out about it. You have to tell this person! I'm telling someone my secret! Trust me this is the hardest thing ever and I'm a complete scaredy cat. But I'm doing it! If I can do this, you can. You can do it. You'll feel better after you do, like a great burden Will be lifted off you because You've always had To hide this. You got this!
Yesh so byeee guys lv Ye as always! Wish me luck with telling this person my darkest secret! -hugs and dies inside-
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