I know how that is. I haven't been on chat for a while either, but I always come on the forums. Sometimes the chat is either boring, or there is just too much drama. I'm that way too, one town my friend said that something super embarrassing happened, (it was brought up by her sister) and she didn't want to talk about it. I kept asking her to tell me.
Honestly, this is a hard situation. I had my friend Molly jealous of me and DeAnna. (Yes the DeAnna I have a crush on.) She didn't say anything specific but she started talking about DeAnna behind her back, saying mean things. It was as if she was trying to prove she was better than DeAnna. I figured out why that was going on, and a solution was hard to find. But, I talked it out with Molly saying DeAnna really was quite sweet, and that some of the points Molly made about her were correct. But that was because she was an only child and her mom treated her like a princess, and tried to get her to wear things for older girls. Anyways,I told Molly that I was friends with both of them. And the three of us could even hang out together. But I would always spend time with her separately.
So pretty much, same solution. We could possibly make a thread for you, me, and Lils.
I hope this is helpful, I will answer if you have any questions.
Mods/admins please let this through